Make This Year The Positive Change You Want In Yourself and The World

Entourage of Light Beings: 2014 You Must Become the Change you want to see in your World

This New Year brings us opportunities for dynamic change to take place. Change is happening on a grander scale than ever before, however this time it is the lightworker who can make the difference in what the final outcome will be. You are now planting the seeds that will be the beginning of the next cycle so choose wisely for yourselves and those that follow. All points have been leading up to these changes that will be taking place over the next 3 years and so learn what you can from the past, release and expect things to be different and they will.

Review the motives of those in your power positions. One of the great uses of expanding your senses is to know when the one who is speaking is standing in integrity or just blowing wind. As more of you learn to trust yourselves and your natural senses you will know what is true and what is right. Until enough of you awaken and effect change by becoming that change, it will carry on business as usually by those who have the most control. Apathy can often be the greatest weapon you use against yourselves.

What Matters is the Intention Behind Spoken Words -- Being Consciously Aware of Your Speech

Being Consciously Aware of Your Speech

Your individual and unique power of speech is one of the most significant elements that distinguishes you from other species that you share your planet with. The great use of this power provides you with opportunities to shine your qualities, thoughts, and feelings without being harmful to the ones you are expressing to. What you say, how you say the words and the methods you use to communicate and how effectively you communicate makes a great difference when interacting with others. It is your intention behind your speech that will come through your verbal and written words, and this intention does not go unnoticed as your intention carries its own energy that is an important part of your ability to communicate effectively.

In order for the words you choose to be helpful, appropriate, true and non-harmful, not troublesome, not hurtful or abusive and not to include negative gossip or chatter, its important dear ones to tune into your conscience, listen to your intuition and allow it to be your guide for knowing what to say and what not to say. It is important dear ones to understand how the words you choose to express to another, either through written or verbal form may affect others. By not consciously thinking ahead of what you wish to express, more often than not what you intended to express becomes misunderstood.

With your discipline and focused effort to continuously search for ways to improve and enhance your ability to communicate, to bring a greater quality into your speech, the practice speaking and communicating in a non-hurtful way, a way that is moral, sound and compassionate you will discover your vocabulary has increased and your emotional tone in your voice, your facial expressions and body language supports the positive changes you are making to enhance your communication skills. Being able to speak to others effectively, without bringing harm to others will improve the quality of your life, because dear ones by being able to speak well, you learn about being more focused, you understand the importance of paying attention, you understand the significance of your intentions being good and meaningful.

Stop Thinking About How Others Think About You, You Were Meant to Be YOU

Being Different Is Okay

Present moment way of living, is where you get in touch with the NOW that is at the heart, the center of living effectively. Living in the NOW moment is the only true way of living. It is progressive, exciting, challenging and incredibly informative. Even if you are looking towards the future, it’s important to think of the future as being just another moment to live in the present when it arrives and remember Dear Hearts you can’t begin living the future until it arrives.

 

We know how difficult life can be; it is filled with new challenges where the level of difficulty can change at a moment’s notice. Part of your journey that encourages you to live in the NOW moment is learning how to be rid of your need and demand for fairness, fairness within society and within relationships. As you move along your divinely chosen path, regardless what that path is you learn what defines you and what does not, you begin to make plans that will aid you to achieve certain personal goals and one of the most important lessons Dear Hearts is learning to NOT compare yourself with another dear soul. When you are done your day with the work you do, it is okay to reflect on the day’s events but steer your busy mind away from overthinking and allow your whole self to rest and remind yourself you did your best and you as you are, are enough.

 

Learning To Love Yourself Is The Key To Improving Your Life

At any given moment, your life and your experiences reflect how you think and feel about yourself. This is true of your relationships, your health, your job, and every other aspect of your life. If your life is not outpicturing the loving relationships, the health, the job, or the prosperity, joy, and happiness you would like to experience, you can be sure that the CAUSE is based on whether or not you Love and honor yourself.

 

From the time you were born, you came to the conclusion of who you are by how the people in your life treated you, and the things that happened to you on a daily basis. With the often erroneous interpretations you made about your life through your limited consciousness, you developed a sense of identity that is based in low self-esteem, unworthiness, and failure consciousness. That distorted belief about who you are was recorded in your etheric records and your subconscious mind and has influenced every facet of your existence to this very day. No matter how hard you try to improve your life, it is impossible for you to transform your life into what you want it to be while holding those erroneous beliefs, actually lies, about yourself.

 

Relationships That Are Centered on Saving the Other Will Fail - Gratitude for The Other Will Succeed

You decide the value of everything in your life expression. You do so through your focused attention, and your gratitude. The word appreciate means to give thankful recognition, to increase or raise the value, to give favourable evaluation. It is a means of giving the universe your personalized feedback to even better define your unique life expression. Think of it as a sorting process. What you express appreciation for, you are saying you wish to keep and experience more of, what you ignore, you are simply withdrawing your energy from because it is not something you wish to experience more of.
Your gratitude and appreciation are what waters the beautiful flowers of your gardens, and brings more joy and beauty to your life.

Have you ever noticed how delightful your partnerships are when they first begin? They flow, they are accepting, you are filled with the wonder of the other person, and your heart swells with love for them. But, invariably, over time, the “bloom is off the rose” and before you know it, you start arguing and finding the other person’s faults. What happened? How could you go from finding nothing but perfection in the person to barely being able to stand being around them?

 The answer is simple, Dear Ones. You haven’t fallen out of love. You have fallen out of gratitude. If you put yourself on high alert for all the wonderful traits your beloved has and choose to concentrate on and express gratitude for those many aspects that made you fall in love in the first place, you will find yourself falling back in love with your partner and using energies that will help your relationship continue to bloom and grow.

 Some of you say, “Well, he/she doesn’t appreciate me! I’ll be thankful for them if they start to appreciate me.” If you are feeling that way you are missing the point. While it is certainly nice to feel other’s gratitude, and we do encourage you to share it with others because it feels good for everyone involved, it is a tool you use for universal feedback, not a gift you bestow upon others. It is your power tool to help energetically announce and create what you want more of. It is how you choose the energies you wish to live with and experience, and no one else can give that to you. It is from BEing grateful that you will draw to you the gratitude you seek.

 Like everything else, the shifting of energies must come from within in order to have the profound and lasting effect you seek. So celebrate the blessings that are all around you, Dear Ones. It is the easiest way to bring desired flow back into any area of your life.

Surrendering into the flow means committing to operating beyond resistance. Resistance is the cause of physical and emotional discomfort. Therefore, you can also consider surrender and flow to be vital tools for healing.

Freedom, the true freedom your soul craves, comes from embracing who you really are, from living your life according to what is best for you and your unique path, choosing activities that bring you joy, seeing yourself as already having everything you need, and surrounding yourself with people and energies that love, encourage, support and uplift you in all of those areas. By doing so you will continue to shine brightly in your truth, and encourage others to do the same, supporting the energies of acceptance, allowing, and divine self expression, which will only continue to further expand, enhance and beautify not only your life expressions, but your beloved planet, as well.

Dear Ones, it is your natural instinct to love. As a piece of God, love is your source, it is your true state of being. Many of you have been hurt by others and have decided to be guarded with your love, which really only amounts to denying yourself.

 Love! Love because it is your natural state. Love because it feels good to do so. If you have forgotten how to love, or how wonderful it feels to feel love, spend some time with babies, animal or human, and feel your heart open and expand. Take notice of when you are in that love space – you feel absolutely delightful – so present and alive! You feel whole and healthy in all ways.

 Many of you think you will experience the flush of falling in love for a short period of time and after that love becomes work. This is such a limited idea of what love is! Love is what allows you to express your beauty, your light, your essence and is what opens you to experience the entire universe loving you right back.

 So come back to love, Dear Ones, as an element that is just as important to you as the air you breathe, and surrender back into that universal stream of divine connection where you give love, receive love, feel love, BE love, all at the same time.

Many of you deny love because you were hurt by someone you loved. But Dear Ones, don’t you see that it was not love that hurt you? It was the absence of love that hurt you. And yet you deny love as if love were to blame, which only makes you more in line with the very thing that hurt you in the first place. Do you see? Do not give an old, out of alignment experience the power to make you forget your true essence or stop BEing who you really are. Your light, your beauty, your essence, your LOVE, is far too glorious, far too required, to withhold from the world.

Many of you are interested in finding new love relationships that are more in line with who you are energetically. Many of you know what didn’t work for you in the past but are not sure how to choose your next relationship. There are many factors that will indicate whether a relationship will be sustainable over a longer period of time.

 The most important is similar levels of integrity. This is the largest predicator of whether a relationship will last. If you have differing ideas of what is right or wrong, the relationship will eventually fail. Integrity is an indicator of the level of soul growth the person is operating by. If your partner has a far lesser level of integrity, it is a clear indicator that you are not operating from a place of soul resonance. These partnerships are frequently based on “saving” the other, and are doomed to fail.

 Energetic resonance is very important to relationships lasting. You do not have to have the same energetic vibration, but it does need to be harmonious.

 A commitment to growth. If one or both partners in a relationship become resistant to growth over a long period of time, the relationship will fail. Relationships are created to support growth and experience. Should the growth stop, so will the relationship. This does not mean that both need to be learning and growing at the same pace. Often one partner will grow and expand, then the other will. But what it does mean is there needs to be some form of individual growth for each within the relationship. If there is not, the relationship no longer serves a purpose and will break apart.

 The last aspect is gratitude. Truly appreciating and supporting your partner by having gratitude for them and their unique traits and essence is one of the surest ways to ensure your relationship lasts. Think of those wonderful love stories you hear from older humans who have been together for decades. The common thread is that they respected and appreciated their partners, on top of loving them. Gratitude is what gives your love relationships longevity.

 If you start to look at your potential partners through these new filters, Dear Ones, you will very quickly find yourselves with partnerships that will be built on firmer foundations than you have experienced in the past and that honour and celebrate you like never before.

Archangel Gabriel
Channeled by Shelley Young
http://trinity-esoterics.com/

Love Will Lead The Way

Be truthfully honest, how much time during the day do you spend in judgment of others? Are you aware of the times that you are? When someone walks by passed you do you think to yourself, “Wow they look sad, or happy, or their clothes are disheveled they must have had a rough night, etc.?” No matter how little it may seem, as soon as you have an observation kind of thought, there is judgment involved. Actions and words of others are being judged, and we are aware of this occurring more often than many of you may realize. If you are completely happy with yourself and I mean 100% happy then you will have absolutely no reason to judge another dear soul that shares your beautiful Earth. It is easy to assume and to judge another without getting to know them, but are you basing those judgments and assumptions because you know what that dear soul is going through, have you walked in their shoes? What we have witnessed is how many people judge others when they themselves are not feeling completely good about themselves – there is a lacking in their lives that causes them to judge others.

Judging others does not move you closer to living from your authentic self, it does not bring you closer to God, and in fact it causes a broader separation to take place. Judging of others without knowing who they are or what they are going through happens all the time, it is not nice, it does not contain love nor does it contain respect or compassion. Yet all that you need to break unhealthy cycles that are damaging to yourself and others is all within each of you.

Why do people judge others? There are many reasons but the big ones are insecurities, fear, loneliness and looking for change or a new direction. Whenever you are unhappy have you not noticed how quick you are to put another person down or to offer opinionated advice where it wasn’t asked for? We have also bared witness when dear souls are moving through fear and how fear causes certain reactions to take place. When you see someone getting ahead and achieving what you wish you could, you create ways to challenge them that will create doubt to creep into that person’s life where none lived before. How many times have you been in the past, envious over another person’s figure, outfit, hairstyle, etc., that caused jealous feelings to take over and create judgments or unnecessary gossip? To be truthfully honest, and we wish you would be – you will come to realize even if you do not take part of this negative behavior now, at some point in your life you have.

Being lonely and feeling that you are alone and don’t belong is another reason why many dear souls find it necessary to judge and make assumptions upon others. Instead of finding common ground with those around them, they are finding ways of pushing good-hearted people away. Any bonds that have been created due to loneliness were mostly not created from true love and compassion. Understand any bonds or connections you have made as a product of your judging others are at best superficial. They are lacking the key component of relationships and connections and that is love dear ones. Love is what truly brings people together. It may start off as a love for something that is similar but it grows with compassion and respect playing an important role.

Sometimes it is hard watching others making great changes and seeing even greater outcomes manifest. You want such changes too and while you observe others, instead of getting to work to bring in your own rewards you fill your head with negative thoughts and judgments on the changes those people brought into their lives. We know it can be hard to be happy for other people’s successes, but it does your heart good when you are, truly and genuinely happy for another dear soul’s happiness.

Have you ever thought of the harm judgments bring? Even the smallest negative thought, word, feeling or action can create a lot of chaos into the life of the one your negative attitude has targeted. It is paramount to always think of what you are going to say, once those words are out, there is no magic eraser to whisk them away. You can say sorry a thousand times but any damage that has been done is already in the making. When you hurt another with your judgmental thoughts, words and actions you are not just hurting them, you are bringing harm down onto yourself. No good comes from criticizing or judging others.

The dear souls that take part in judging and criticizing others create a false reality that it is okay to treat other people badly or to undermine their worth. Every time they partake in such activity they are bringing more harm down into their own lives. Remember how the power of attraction works, when you do good things, good things will come to you, when you do harmful things that you know are wrong, well my dears I believe and know you understand how this works – you will attract the same into your own life.

Even in this modern era there are still stereotypes based on gender, spirituality, appearance, and other labels and categories that creates a deeper separation. Instead of working together for the betterment of mankind, what is created is a bunch of little groups working separately as one. Judgments are often bred within separated groups that stigmatize the people that are within those invisible walls. No matter if a person is gay, Buddhist, Christian, Black, White or any other kind of difference they are still people with a heart, they know how to give love and to receive love. Peace is able to be reached when those walls come down and let others in. Shedding ignorance of different cultures and ways of life will bring liberation, unify through love and acceptance – judgments will not belong because love has led the way.

No matter how you look at it dear ones; assumptions made from judgments and criticism is negative. They do not bring any good into your life; they create harm and can have life-long effects on the dear souls that took the brunt of any negative words, feelings, thoughts or actions. Each of you are completely capable of giving and sharing love and just as capable to bring an end to being assuming, judgmental or critical of others. There are ways and we know you can bring this negative behavior to an end and shorten the gap between you and the Heart of God.

If you honestly and truthfully have all the intentions that good and powerful to end the incessant need to judge others then it begins dear ones by observing your own thought patterns. When you recognize negative thoughts are forming in your head, learn why they are there. Once you learn why they have appeared quickly give those negative thoughts a new positive direction. Look for something positive. This will require you to pay extra attention and to actually focus instead of always rushing through. You are less effective if you are always rushing. You can’t get to know anyone if you don’t give them the time. If you are required to say something in a response, choose your words wisely and find something positive and if you can’t simply don’t offer a comment. Learn to make different choices that are non-harmful to yourself or to those around you. You will create a friendlier air that will help attract more people into your circle thus creating a better network of support people that one day you may need.

Learn to not judge a book by its cover. Don’t quickly assume or judge another unless you have truly walked in their shoes and you know this person well. Avoid judging people just because of their appearance, gender, sexual preference, religion or other stereotypes. Silence is golden dear ones; it provides you with incredible insight to yourself and allows others to be themselves without judgment, criticism or assumption. When someone is different than you, instead of making ill judgments on their choices and ways of life, how about inquire about their lifestyle. Ask questions that indicate that you want to learn. Even if their ways are not yours, you are gaining valuable information and understanding how another person lives their lives even in the simplest degrees of understanding – it brings you closer together on a tighter bond.

We encourage you to focus more on your own life than on what others are doing. The more you focus on yourself, the less likely you will compare and create assumptions based on false judgments and criticism. End the vicious cycle of judging yourself. The harsher you think of yourself the worse you will think towards others. Look at all the positive things you have accomplished instead of focusing on the negative. At any time there is a lacking in your life, learn of this lacking and discover ways that will bring change and new growth that will illuminate any lacking. This is your journey dear ones. Even if you are not completely spiritual, your choices are yours and you are responsible for them. If you want a happier and more fulfilling life then it is you that must make this happen. We will always be here, guiding and supporting you each step, but you have to want this help and while we are working on the spiritual side of your life you are working positively on the physical side that will enrich all aspects of who you are in the life you are currently living.

Try and remember how it felt when some falsely accused you or judged you wrong. How did you feel? It is not a good feeling. There are many ways that you can bring more uplifting and positive change into your life that will rebuke any judgments or criticisms that you may have at one time chosen. You have the choice to demonstrate your goodness and security within your own person or you have the choice to demonstrate your insecurities which comes through as being mean and judgmental. Understand dear ones, where the act of judgment comes from – it comes from pride, and not the kind of pride you feel when you have passed a test or crossed the finish line in a marathon, but false pride – the kind of pride that is fanciful and filled with the feeling of superiority. Realize dear ones any time you have given false judgment on another dear soul you have also become accountable for making the correct judgment.

Don’t make matters worse by judging; bring change to your situations that are positive and welcoming. Learn who people are, don’t assume. It is okay to ask questions, asking questions shows another person you are willing to listen and to learn and dear ones that is an important first step towards acceptance, respect, love and compassion that your world sorely needs. Changes have occurred for the better and they will continue to rise. Some changes are slower to take than others but time is always on your side if you see time as a friend rather than a foe. Be true to yourself and love those you meet.

I AM Archangel Sandalphon through Julie Miller

Message from Archangel Sandalphon
Received by Julie Miller
October 12, 2013 www.spiritualnetworks.com

Relationships Inspire Happiness and Peace

Relationships Inspire Happiness and Peace

The world which you live in is constantly changing and evolving and so are your relationships. Many of you have embraced the concept of becoming more in-tune to yourself on a spiritual level and with those you love – you create a bond that is not based on words, but by your actions that are not outrageous, instead your actions demonstrate the intent and the purity of your thoughts in perpetual motion that inspire goodness and unconditional love.

At first, when you enter any relationship you enter it because of a comforting feeling you get while in the other person’s company, you see this new person as someone you can lean on while going through a difficult experience, or just someone you can confide on a personal level with. At first your needs are met on a mental and emotional level because of the deep connection you both made that have a common need that is fulfilled by the development of the relationship. The more time you spend with this new person, regardless if it is a romantic relationship or platonic, the connection made enables you both to unlock the inner potential of this new relationship to blossom from the light and love that is being shared. In order to develop and create a relationship with another you must believe in yourself and have enough faith and trust to step beyond any fears that can rise during any new relationship that is just beginning.

Each person that comes into your life has the potential of being a friend. Nothing is ever by coincidence; all has reason including the creation of friendship and other kinds of relationships. God and other divine beings have been working hard behind the scenes making it possible for certain paths to cross in order to broaden your life experience, to discover deeper meanings of joy and happiness and to gain a new perspective. Sometimes the relationships don’t always work out, but they are always filled with something positive to gain. We know how difficult it can be to see the positive when a relationship didn’t last, but when you are able to look without attaching pain to the experience you are able to see what you learned and gained and how you can apply this newly gained knowledge next time. It is easy to say there will be no next time, but there will always be a next time eventually. All experiences, the good and the bad all come with important life lessons. Without the difficult ones you wouldn’t know how to appreciate the good ones, and happiness would only be wishful thinking instead of actual reality.

Each opportunity and interaction that presents itself to you dear ones is a gift from God. God’s gifts are often subdued hidden within the obvious. Through the gift of developing a relationship you are able to learn so much valuable information about yourself through the sharing you do with the new person that has entered your atmosphere of friends and other dear hearted souls that means a lot to you. With God working through you and with you, you will be able to take the positive changes you have developed from a newly created relationship and apply them in other areas of your life. You become better in-tuned with yourself because you are listening to the vibration of your heart and you learn how to relate to other people in a way that demonstrates peace, love and faith in yourself and for all those that surround you no matter how far they may be. The power of a relationship that is working has the ability of affecting others with the positive energy it emits and you come home to the comforting feeling of your own love that has always existed within yourself to have and to share.

When relationships are budding, understand you are building a foundation that is not about fulfilling your own needs but a combination of fulfilling both of your needs that is equal and essential. The person that comes into your life, is not only there to give you something, they come into your life in the hope of building something together – something with equal opportunities that only help to nurture and grow the relationship into a complete joining of two people that are supportive, able to be sincerely empathetic, they demonstrate hopefulness and creativity in a deep and interconnected way that is purely divine.

When you exemplify empathy, you are willingly extending yourself into the other person’s world, accepting this person’s situation, you are understanding and you never judge or criticize them. You anticipate the relationship with hopefulness, understanding and knowing this person already is a great and they have the potential of becoming even better because of the relationship that is in the works of being created. Relationships require a certain amount of creativity, where energy flows equally together with equal opportunities of giving and receiving.

Remember dear ones you are the creators of your life. By meeting each relationship as equals, you are also able to discover more of yourself at an inner and more personal level; the wisdom of your heart is able to shine through your actions as love and compassion that each person in any relationship deserves. When you help to create with another dear soul, you are potentially able to bring forth powerful changes that not only benefit you and the one you have connected with, but you bring these great changes to others by the upliftment of your own energies working as a combined force of goodness and love. When you demonstrate love for yourself and for others willingly and consciously you are able to see the goodness in ALL people, and gain so much joy when you recognize you are living in harmony with those around you.

When you are able to view the spiritual nature of your relationships – to see them from a deeper perspective, you are able to bring yourself into new heights of understanding and awareness that may have not been present before. New relationships that are just budding allow you to view certain qualities of yourself that you allow you the opportunity to make certain changes by ridding yourself of old attachments that would only weigh your new relationship down and accepting the Love from God that fills your whole self; mind, body, soul and heart with his endearing light that empowers you to greet new people and new relationships with your real and authentic self. Remember because you are the creators of your journey, all unions made with another person are created out of choice, any amount of time that is spent together is a combination of both people making the choice to offer and accept – to come to a workable conclusion that continues to inspire happiness and peace.

Any time you are able to view your relationships with a spiritual outlook you are able to see the truth in the divine creation of their existence. Even if a relationship only stayed for a short time, there is something of value to gain. It requires great trust to build any relationship as trust is like the glue of both mind and heart working together within the power of hope between two people. When you apply faith on the development of your relationship you are exercising that you are willing to follow your heart to what is real.

When you are connected with another, you develop a deeper knowing of what is right and good within yourself that is demonstrated by your words, actions, feelings, thoughts and will. Your inner knowing has the ability to bring change to any relationship and to your own life because your inner knowing brings change to how you think of yourself and how you see the world as a whole interconnected cosmic reality. Trusting your inner knowing allows you to move past any doubts your ego may create into the path of belief and certainty. Knowing each relationship is created out of Divine Love helps to eradicate negativity and promotes peaceful compassion and hope for the future of your relationship.

There are many among you dear ones who fear the creation of relationships because they fear of the potential of being hurt and/or disappointed. But when they say no to a relationship they are also saying no the possible personal and spiritual growth and development of themselves – to be able connect with another and see the world through their eyes. Relationships help you to understand more of yourself. We understand the difficulty and the uncertainty that can be felt when a new relationship holds a promising potential, we encourage you dear ones to move past this fear, discover the courage that is found within your beautiful heart and step forward, one step at a time, even if your steps are baby steps. Reduce your expectations and enjoy the collaboration of energy that occurs when you meld with another. Have faith dear ones in the journey you are on and trust where your heart is leading you. God wants you to be happy and for you to have a wonderfully peaceful life – but you have to want it as well, and we all know if you want something bad enough you will do all you can to bring forth a successful outcome.

I AM Ascended Master, El Morya through Julie Miller

Ascended Master, El Morya’s Weekly Message ~ October 08 – 15, 2013
Received by Julie Miller
October 08, 2013

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