Don't Bully People to See Your Point of View, God Doesn't

You Can Only See What You Do See

Heavenletters #4786   

Published on: January 1, 2014

God said:

There are so many opinions of Me and how I run the world and how I should be running the world. Didn’t someone say that “you can’t please all of the people all of the time?”

And that’s all right. No one has to be in perfect agreement with Me all of the time either! In fact, until you open your eyes and your mind wide, you can’t possibly. Dear Ones, you may well not understand what I am about and what I am talking about. Therefore, how can you know what you are talking about? Coming from bits and pieces, you see only bits and pieces. It is inevitable that with one eye closed, you do not see everything. You can only see that which you do see.

It would be well for you to refrain from giving the impression that you do know it all and that you are the final word on any subject, most certainly on the subject of God. There are many paths to Me. What is your path today is not the only path available. And what is your path today may well not be your path tomorrow. Does it have to be? Also you can consider that there is no path to Me. There is only love in your heart, and I am that love. You already have what you may quibble about.

Accepting Responsibility Requires Conscious Awareness of the Influence of Your Actions

Accepting  Responsibility

 

It gives me great pleasure beautiful Sons and Daughters of God to speak to all of you through this chosen vessel here today. Let us begin by giving thanks to the gift of a new day God has bestowed upon each of you, a new day to grow, a new day to develop and to learn from the endless opportunities presented to you.

We ask you to think what it means to be responsible. For you to be responsible, what does this include? It is vital for each of you to comprehend that responsibility is a virtue that is becoming less noticed as more and more lovely souls are seeking in a rush to be this or to be that, or to replace what is convenient over responsibility. We really encourage you to think hard, honestly and truthfully what areas in your life require you to be more responsible. As it is understood that the world you live in is a reflection of you. Therefore if you are seeing other lovely souls acting in an irresponsible way, what does this indicate about yourself?

When you are responsible in all ways, you are demonstrating you are also very much aware and mindful of not only yourself but of those around you regardless of the distance. The true virtue of responsibility is also a moral quality that is used to stand alongside God’s Word. There are many dear and lovely souls that make a point to do good things but they don’t necessarily stand alongside the true nature of God’s Word. It is essential My Lovely Ones to understand your good deed is merely an action derived from a compassionate impulse that doesn’t always include any real heart-felt decision. When you are able to be unconditionally loving with your giving, then your action of doing a good deed becomes an action of God working through you.

Remove Blame and BE a Peaceful Force of Love and Compassion

Be A Peaceful Force Of Love And Compassion

There have been many situations suddenly arise in your day-to-day activities where you felt it was justifiable to blame another, both on a joint and personal level, and the energy that is dispersed during the act of casting blame is neither conductive or productive of creating any other effect other than pulling you deeper into the realm of despair and dismay.

Understand Beautiful Bright Hearts, blame works for your Ego, your ego will compel you to blame others in order to protect you from feeling helpless. Blame often comes through during certain conditions that create frustration that leave you feeling you are lacking something, being deprived of something, instead of permitting you to feel the grief, or sorrow that would lead you to healing yourself, blame creates an dynamic part of your feeling; a sense or feeling that you are able to do something about upsetting situations through the assistance of another dear soul by passing off your responsibility to them. Whenever you engage with blame, you believe you are taking a progressive active step towards requesting justice and that the ones you are passing blame to will turn out to be different.

During any difficult situation Beautiful Bright Hearts, it is important to separate your desire; the part of you that feels it is the circumstances you have experienced that created your pain, suffering or discomfort to be different and your energy that creates the anger that in turn creates the blame that you bring into the situation. For the energy you use to create the blame from your anger and frustration, you end up not seeing clearly therefore the bigger picture of how to work with the situation at hand becomes a challenge because you allowed it to grow out of proportion through your need to blame. If you are able to redirect your energy from the need to cast blame to seeing what changes you can make within yourself, you might then dear ones begin to clearly see how to rectify and come through the difficult situation with greater ease.

Anytime you are presented with a life opportunity within a situation that causes anger enough to pass blame for what you are feeling you are given a chance to discover within yourself your own willingness to trust and to connect with the positive side of life instead of the negative. When you are willing to take your own pain and despair, instead of sending it back into the world where more pain will be felt by others, you are holding your own discomfort and instead sending healthful healing energy back into the world.

When you think your pain is too much for yourself to carry alone, you may feel it too severe to deal with. Instead of blaming others, you are encouraged to pray for enlightenment, for God’s Healing Light and Love to fill your entire being, illuminating a path that will lead you out of your dark predicament. God’s Light will show you Beautiful Bright Hearts what you need to hold onto, giving you the inner knowing that with the expansion of your heart it is possible and He will help you. This is a challenge, one that is personal and deeply spiritual, as it requires you to sacrifice the pain you are feeling in order to discover a certain amount of enlargement within yourself that will enable you to carry your pain without creating more for others to feel. You do this dear ones not because you wish to suffer further but because you recognize that you are an important part of all life, not just with your own self alone and feeling separated.

When your beautiful hearts expands in order to enlarge its volume to hold your feeling of loss and despair you are providing a great benefit for the entire world, and it is has transmutative effects to your feeling of frustration and blame. The love that resides in your heart that is expanding dissolves your need for negative feelings and actions and instead provides you with the capability of living freely, and in peace within any circumstance that life may bring you. This kind of positive action and change of your thinking and reactions will not create inaction as many dear souls would at first believe, instead the new changes you have adopted will reflect a determination of being a force of love and compassion for the entire world and where the energy of your feelings that come from your expanded heart will benefit others for the greater good of humanity.

The reason for changing how you react to difficult situations gives you insight on how ineffective your need to pass blame out of anger took away your precious energy and focus. Your new and positive way of dealing with your frustrations, anger or pain that was a result of a situation with another dear soul will contribute to your ability to move forward in your life in fast and direct ways, where your decision making, and planning abilities bring you back into being in the Present that feels comfortable and peaceful. What is often hidden Beautiful Bright Hearts from your waking awareness, but is still very much active are your negative energies that you tend to hold within yourself are the reasons why you cannot reach your own sense of peace and calm. You have had moments dear ones where you can feel them through explosive anger or another disturbing emotion or feeling that suddenly bursts. Yet at other moments these hidden negative energies function as a festering sore that is just below the surface of your perception window and this is harder to heal because they were left ignored for a very long time.

In order to find peace dear Beautiful Bright Hearts, you first must realize that peace rests within your freedom to select which emotions waves you will allow to live within your emotional mind and which ones you are willing to let go. The dear souls that strive for peace must also strive to let go of the need to want anything that would create a conflict with this. Your precious minds may not realize but your heart always knows the Right way and it is the way of the Heart that we encourage you take. In order to create peace within your precious hearts, you are required to let go any animosity, anger or any other negative feeling or emotion that may be lingering and create a life that is blame free and peace giving. When your heart is ready and you are ready, then your precious soul will discover a way to instruct you with the necessary lessons of peace that your dear busy minds will acquire and to make room for.

May each Beautiful Bright Heart, the dear souls that are striving for peace in the whole world, discover that this knowledge is already within them, just waiting to be discovered and shared.

And so it is…

I AM Ascended Master, Lady Nada through Julie Miller

Ascended Master, Lady Nada’s Weekly Message ~ December 26 – January 02, 2014

December 26, 2013

http://spiritualnetworks.com/blog/111762/be-a-peaceful-force-of-love-and-compassion/

 

When Love Takes Over Fear Disappears - Heavenletter # 4722

Love Soars and Fear Disappears

Heavenletter #: 4722

October 29, 2013

Your mind and your habits of thinking signal to you that that there is difficulty. Regardless of what befalls, you would be problem-free if you had not so well-learned the concept of difficulty. You would be as free as a bird if you had not learned well that life is composed of difficulties and you have to be on the alert. How well you learned danger and aversion to it. It is as if you planted an alarm within you, an alarm that alerts you constantly.

You were born into a world that taught you ideas of right and wrong, and that challenges in life were wrong, unbidden, unfavored, as if you were not to grow, as if there were a limit set on growth, as if life were to expand so far and no further, that safety was primary and living life really was to be avoided, averted, opposed to you.

There is no doubt about it. You can look at life as though it were treacherous and uncalled for. You can look at injustice and cruelty. They are not hard for you to see. And so you make judgment. All this judgment was cultured into you. You were not born with it. You were born innocent. You were born with the prediction of goodness and care. You were born to thrive and not to retire from life as it comes, as it happens.

What if, as a child, you knew only love and did not become acquainted with fear? What if you were not confined and made to cry? What if you were greeted totally with love and encouragement and knew nothing else?

This does not mean you would be savage or spoiled. You would have your own way in the sense that love is your way. What if there were no repression, no punishment, no correction except for love?

What health you would have, what vision, what joy in life. Joy in life is what you would have learned and what you would give unabashedly. What happiness, what laughter, what consideration. How you would embrace life and be embraced by it.

Alas, this is not how life has been cultured, and, so now, culture well-being for yourself. Love yourself now. Put balm on your wounds, and heal them. Be good-natured once again, and be good-natured to yourself.

The world found fault with you. You have had enough of the concept of fault. There is no fault except a stamp imposed upon you. Love blossoms you, and yet love finds no fault to improve. With more love, the concept of being improved would not exist. Not even approval would exist. There would be no need for it. Nothing would have to be made better. What for? You are a beautiful viable human being who, too often, was being improved, and that may have been to your detriment. Disapproved of, you were not improved. You were hampered.

Where is freedom when you are cramped? Perhaps your sense of self-worth wasn’t allowed to grow as your feet might not if they were always cramped in too tight shoes. Everyone has awareness of not cramping the body, yet when it comes to heart, cramping may be the order of the day.

Let there be an end to this. Substitute enjoyment, laughter, appreciation instead. Let everyone be free. With freedom, there would be no need for license. There would be no need of recrimination or going too far. There would not even be need for love because love would soar on its own. All would come down to the knowledge that love is all, and that is all there is. What a comfort that would be. Love would be like a warm quilt in winter, and it would be a fair breeze in summer. Love would soar, and fear would disappear.

Then you would be able to look at the world and say that all is good, for good is all you would know.

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Relationships That Are Centered on Saving the Other Will Fail - Gratitude for The Other Will Succeed

You decide the value of everything in your life expression. You do so through your focused attention, and your gratitude. The word appreciate means to give thankful recognition, to increase or raise the value, to give favourable evaluation. It is a means of giving the universe your personalized feedback to even better define your unique life expression. Think of it as a sorting process. What you express appreciation for, you are saying you wish to keep and experience more of, what you ignore, you are simply withdrawing your energy from because it is not something you wish to experience more of.
Your gratitude and appreciation are what waters the beautiful flowers of your gardens, and brings more joy and beauty to your life.

Have you ever noticed how delightful your partnerships are when they first begin? They flow, they are accepting, you are filled with the wonder of the other person, and your heart swells with love for them. But, invariably, over time, the “bloom is off the rose” and before you know it, you start arguing and finding the other person’s faults. What happened? How could you go from finding nothing but perfection in the person to barely being able to stand being around them?

 The answer is simple, Dear Ones. You haven’t fallen out of love. You have fallen out of gratitude. If you put yourself on high alert for all the wonderful traits your beloved has and choose to concentrate on and express gratitude for those many aspects that made you fall in love in the first place, you will find yourself falling back in love with your partner and using energies that will help your relationship continue to bloom and grow.

 Some of you say, “Well, he/she doesn’t appreciate me! I’ll be thankful for them if they start to appreciate me.” If you are feeling that way you are missing the point. While it is certainly nice to feel other’s gratitude, and we do encourage you to share it with others because it feels good for everyone involved, it is a tool you use for universal feedback, not a gift you bestow upon others. It is your power tool to help energetically announce and create what you want more of. It is how you choose the energies you wish to live with and experience, and no one else can give that to you. It is from BEing grateful that you will draw to you the gratitude you seek.

 Like everything else, the shifting of energies must come from within in order to have the profound and lasting effect you seek. So celebrate the blessings that are all around you, Dear Ones. It is the easiest way to bring desired flow back into any area of your life.

Surrendering into the flow means committing to operating beyond resistance. Resistance is the cause of physical and emotional discomfort. Therefore, you can also consider surrender and flow to be vital tools for healing.

Freedom, the true freedom your soul craves, comes from embracing who you really are, from living your life according to what is best for you and your unique path, choosing activities that bring you joy, seeing yourself as already having everything you need, and surrounding yourself with people and energies that love, encourage, support and uplift you in all of those areas. By doing so you will continue to shine brightly in your truth, and encourage others to do the same, supporting the energies of acceptance, allowing, and divine self expression, which will only continue to further expand, enhance and beautify not only your life expressions, but your beloved planet, as well.

Dear Ones, it is your natural instinct to love. As a piece of God, love is your source, it is your true state of being. Many of you have been hurt by others and have decided to be guarded with your love, which really only amounts to denying yourself.

 Love! Love because it is your natural state. Love because it feels good to do so. If you have forgotten how to love, or how wonderful it feels to feel love, spend some time with babies, animal or human, and feel your heart open and expand. Take notice of when you are in that love space – you feel absolutely delightful – so present and alive! You feel whole and healthy in all ways.

 Many of you think you will experience the flush of falling in love for a short period of time and after that love becomes work. This is such a limited idea of what love is! Love is what allows you to express your beauty, your light, your essence and is what opens you to experience the entire universe loving you right back.

 So come back to love, Dear Ones, as an element that is just as important to you as the air you breathe, and surrender back into that universal stream of divine connection where you give love, receive love, feel love, BE love, all at the same time.

Many of you deny love because you were hurt by someone you loved. But Dear Ones, don’t you see that it was not love that hurt you? It was the absence of love that hurt you. And yet you deny love as if love were to blame, which only makes you more in line with the very thing that hurt you in the first place. Do you see? Do not give an old, out of alignment experience the power to make you forget your true essence or stop BEing who you really are. Your light, your beauty, your essence, your LOVE, is far too glorious, far too required, to withhold from the world.

Many of you are interested in finding new love relationships that are more in line with who you are energetically. Many of you know what didn’t work for you in the past but are not sure how to choose your next relationship. There are many factors that will indicate whether a relationship will be sustainable over a longer period of time.

 The most important is similar levels of integrity. This is the largest predicator of whether a relationship will last. If you have differing ideas of what is right or wrong, the relationship will eventually fail. Integrity is an indicator of the level of soul growth the person is operating by. If your partner has a far lesser level of integrity, it is a clear indicator that you are not operating from a place of soul resonance. These partnerships are frequently based on “saving” the other, and are doomed to fail.

 Energetic resonance is very important to relationships lasting. You do not have to have the same energetic vibration, but it does need to be harmonious.

 A commitment to growth. If one or both partners in a relationship become resistant to growth over a long period of time, the relationship will fail. Relationships are created to support growth and experience. Should the growth stop, so will the relationship. This does not mean that both need to be learning and growing at the same pace. Often one partner will grow and expand, then the other will. But what it does mean is there needs to be some form of individual growth for each within the relationship. If there is not, the relationship no longer serves a purpose and will break apart.

 The last aspect is gratitude. Truly appreciating and supporting your partner by having gratitude for them and their unique traits and essence is one of the surest ways to ensure your relationship lasts. Think of those wonderful love stories you hear from older humans who have been together for decades. The common thread is that they respected and appreciated their partners, on top of loving them. Gratitude is what gives your love relationships longevity.

 If you start to look at your potential partners through these new filters, Dear Ones, you will very quickly find yourselves with partnerships that will be built on firmer foundations than you have experienced in the past and that honour and celebrate you like never before.

Archangel Gabriel
Channeled by Shelley Young
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