Heart-ful Giving is Needed Just like the Air We Breath

Heart-ful Giving

Being able to give to another unconditionally is one of the greatest sources of joy and deep inner satisfaction that each dear soul can come to know. Have you ever considered even once, why there is such a connection of your happiness and of your willingness to help and to contribute to your fellow brothers and sisters?

Deep inside each of you is this truth, that you are meant to share and to give to others and each time you share unconditionally and each time you serve mankind it feels good and this good feelings spreads a warmth throughout your entire body. You will not meet many volunteers in your community who are not happy and joyful and they are happy serving others, doing good for others for no wage or salary. We have observed that many volunteers live a happier life than those that are being paid for the same thing.

Each of you can achieve this inner good feeling no matter what work you are doing when you stop asking what is in it for you. Instead of looking at your work with selfish thoughts and feelings, look at what you are doing with a positive mind-set, see the good you are doing and how your good work is benefiting others as a result. Seeing the joy in the faces of those you are applying your effort for is a by-product of you giving from your heart, a giving that comes from love.

What Matters is the Intention Behind Spoken Words -- Being Consciously Aware of Your Speech

Being Consciously Aware of Your Speech

Your individual and unique power of speech is one of the most significant elements that distinguishes you from other species that you share your planet with. The great use of this power provides you with opportunities to shine your qualities, thoughts, and feelings without being harmful to the ones you are expressing to. What you say, how you say the words and the methods you use to communicate and how effectively you communicate makes a great difference when interacting with others. It is your intention behind your speech that will come through your verbal and written words, and this intention does not go unnoticed as your intention carries its own energy that is an important part of your ability to communicate effectively.

In order for the words you choose to be helpful, appropriate, true and non-harmful, not troublesome, not hurtful or abusive and not to include negative gossip or chatter, its important dear ones to tune into your conscience, listen to your intuition and allow it to be your guide for knowing what to say and what not to say. It is important dear ones to understand how the words you choose to express to another, either through written or verbal form may affect others. By not consciously thinking ahead of what you wish to express, more often than not what you intended to express becomes misunderstood.

With your discipline and focused effort to continuously search for ways to improve and enhance your ability to communicate, to bring a greater quality into your speech, the practice speaking and communicating in a non-hurtful way, a way that is moral, sound and compassionate you will discover your vocabulary has increased and your emotional tone in your voice, your facial expressions and body language supports the positive changes you are making to enhance your communication skills. Being able to speak to others effectively, without bringing harm to others will improve the quality of your life, because dear ones by being able to speak well, you learn about being more focused, you understand the importance of paying attention, you understand the significance of your intentions being good and meaningful.

Relationships Inspire Happiness and Peace

Relationships Inspire Happiness and Peace

The world which you live in is constantly changing and evolving and so are your relationships. Many of you have embraced the concept of becoming more in-tune to yourself on a spiritual level and with those you love – you create a bond that is not based on words, but by your actions that are not outrageous, instead your actions demonstrate the intent and the purity of your thoughts in perpetual motion that inspire goodness and unconditional love.

At first, when you enter any relationship you enter it because of a comforting feeling you get while in the other person’s company, you see this new person as someone you can lean on while going through a difficult experience, or just someone you can confide on a personal level with. At first your needs are met on a mental and emotional level because of the deep connection you both made that have a common need that is fulfilled by the development of the relationship. The more time you spend with this new person, regardless if it is a romantic relationship or platonic, the connection made enables you both to unlock the inner potential of this new relationship to blossom from the light and love that is being shared. In order to develop and create a relationship with another you must believe in yourself and have enough faith and trust to step beyond any fears that can rise during any new relationship that is just beginning.

Each person that comes into your life has the potential of being a friend. Nothing is ever by coincidence; all has reason including the creation of friendship and other kinds of relationships. God and other divine beings have been working hard behind the scenes making it possible for certain paths to cross in order to broaden your life experience, to discover deeper meanings of joy and happiness and to gain a new perspective. Sometimes the relationships don’t always work out, but they are always filled with something positive to gain. We know how difficult it can be to see the positive when a relationship didn’t last, but when you are able to look without attaching pain to the experience you are able to see what you learned and gained and how you can apply this newly gained knowledge next time. It is easy to say there will be no next time, but there will always be a next time eventually. All experiences, the good and the bad all come with important life lessons. Without the difficult ones you wouldn’t know how to appreciate the good ones, and happiness would only be wishful thinking instead of actual reality.

Each opportunity and interaction that presents itself to you dear ones is a gift from God. God’s gifts are often subdued hidden within the obvious. Through the gift of developing a relationship you are able to learn so much valuable information about yourself through the sharing you do with the new person that has entered your atmosphere of friends and other dear hearted souls that means a lot to you. With God working through you and with you, you will be able to take the positive changes you have developed from a newly created relationship and apply them in other areas of your life. You become better in-tuned with yourself because you are listening to the vibration of your heart and you learn how to relate to other people in a way that demonstrates peace, love and faith in yourself and for all those that surround you no matter how far they may be. The power of a relationship that is working has the ability of affecting others with the positive energy it emits and you come home to the comforting feeling of your own love that has always existed within yourself to have and to share.

When relationships are budding, understand you are building a foundation that is not about fulfilling your own needs but a combination of fulfilling both of your needs that is equal and essential. The person that comes into your life, is not only there to give you something, they come into your life in the hope of building something together – something with equal opportunities that only help to nurture and grow the relationship into a complete joining of two people that are supportive, able to be sincerely empathetic, they demonstrate hopefulness and creativity in a deep and interconnected way that is purely divine.

When you exemplify empathy, you are willingly extending yourself into the other person’s world, accepting this person’s situation, you are understanding and you never judge or criticize them. You anticipate the relationship with hopefulness, understanding and knowing this person already is a great and they have the potential of becoming even better because of the relationship that is in the works of being created. Relationships require a certain amount of creativity, where energy flows equally together with equal opportunities of giving and receiving.

Remember dear ones you are the creators of your life. By meeting each relationship as equals, you are also able to discover more of yourself at an inner and more personal level; the wisdom of your heart is able to shine through your actions as love and compassion that each person in any relationship deserves. When you help to create with another dear soul, you are potentially able to bring forth powerful changes that not only benefit you and the one you have connected with, but you bring these great changes to others by the upliftment of your own energies working as a combined force of goodness and love. When you demonstrate love for yourself and for others willingly and consciously you are able to see the goodness in ALL people, and gain so much joy when you recognize you are living in harmony with those around you.

When you are able to view the spiritual nature of your relationships – to see them from a deeper perspective, you are able to bring yourself into new heights of understanding and awareness that may have not been present before. New relationships that are just budding allow you to view certain qualities of yourself that you allow you the opportunity to make certain changes by ridding yourself of old attachments that would only weigh your new relationship down and accepting the Love from God that fills your whole self; mind, body, soul and heart with his endearing light that empowers you to greet new people and new relationships with your real and authentic self. Remember because you are the creators of your journey, all unions made with another person are created out of choice, any amount of time that is spent together is a combination of both people making the choice to offer and accept – to come to a workable conclusion that continues to inspire happiness and peace.

Any time you are able to view your relationships with a spiritual outlook you are able to see the truth in the divine creation of their existence. Even if a relationship only stayed for a short time, there is something of value to gain. It requires great trust to build any relationship as trust is like the glue of both mind and heart working together within the power of hope between two people. When you apply faith on the development of your relationship you are exercising that you are willing to follow your heart to what is real.

When you are connected with another, you develop a deeper knowing of what is right and good within yourself that is demonstrated by your words, actions, feelings, thoughts and will. Your inner knowing has the ability to bring change to any relationship and to your own life because your inner knowing brings change to how you think of yourself and how you see the world as a whole interconnected cosmic reality. Trusting your inner knowing allows you to move past any doubts your ego may create into the path of belief and certainty. Knowing each relationship is created out of Divine Love helps to eradicate negativity and promotes peaceful compassion and hope for the future of your relationship.

There are many among you dear ones who fear the creation of relationships because they fear of the potential of being hurt and/or disappointed. But when they say no to a relationship they are also saying no the possible personal and spiritual growth and development of themselves – to be able connect with another and see the world through their eyes. Relationships help you to understand more of yourself. We understand the difficulty and the uncertainty that can be felt when a new relationship holds a promising potential, we encourage you dear ones to move past this fear, discover the courage that is found within your beautiful heart and step forward, one step at a time, even if your steps are baby steps. Reduce your expectations and enjoy the collaboration of energy that occurs when you meld with another. Have faith dear ones in the journey you are on and trust where your heart is leading you. God wants you to be happy and for you to have a wonderfully peaceful life – but you have to want it as well, and we all know if you want something bad enough you will do all you can to bring forth a successful outcome.

I AM Ascended Master, El Morya through Julie Miller

Ascended Master, El Morya’s Weekly Message ~ October 08 – 15, 2013
Received by Julie Miller
October 08, 2013

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